If you like attractive women (black, white, Asian, Hispanic, curvy, thin, tall, short, etc.) with good personalities, Xpress.com absolutely must be the first online personals site you try out. It doesn’t have the name recognition of Match.com or eHarmony.com, but it’s every bit as good. Actually, it’s even better. Xpress.com has proven to us that you should never assume an online personals site isn’t as good as the big name brands.
To be perfectly honest, we made negative assumptions about Xpress.com before trying the site out. Now we feel dumb! Xpress.com has fewer women than Match.com and some of the other sites. We knew that going in. What we didn’t know is they also have far fewer males than the other sites so it evens itself out. And as it turns out, there are more than enough decent women on Xpress.com to find plenty of dates.
Xpress.com: Review Of Our Dating Results
- Emails Sent/Serious Responses Received (270/211)
- Agreed Upon Real Dates in 3 Months (9)
There are a few things you need to lookout for when reading email messages on online personals sites. There are a lot of “bots” online that respond automatically with a link to a Yahoo! Messenger account to chat. Any time we received this type of response we didn’t count it as a serious response received. On many of the personals sites we used these messages were common. But not on Xpress.com. In fact, only once did we receive a response with a link to a bogus Yahoo! Messenger account to “chat with a hot horny girl”.
Because the girls are real on Xpress.com, we were able to get dates with ease. We were a bit more selective on this site than other online personals sites because there was more quality selection. Had we lowered our standards, we would have far exceeded 9 dates in 3 months. Probably would have set up 15-20 dates. Getting a date on here is pretty damm easy.
The Top Xpress.com First Online Personals Emails That Succeeded
We used similar emails on every online personals site, but these were the specific ones successfully used on Xpress.com. Feel free to copy these when you email women. But remember to alter them to specifically match the girl you are messaging…
Xpress.com Quirks: What We Didn’t Love On Xpress.com
There isn’t much to dislike about Xpress.com. But since we’re picky S.O.B’s, we did find a couple of things to whine about. Let’s start with the number of complete douchebags on there. Sure, the fact that there are so many douches on there is an advantage to us normal guys (less competition), but you have to work extra hard to prove to the ladies you aren’t another one of the douchebags.
The other thing that bugged us was the lack of site specific dating advice from the folks over at Xpress.com. We had to figure out how it all worked on our own, which is fine but it still would have been nice if they gave out some pointers for Xpress.com newbies.
Xpress.com Review: Is Xpress.com Legit? Our Review Conclusion
Despite the minor disappointments about Xpress.com, we think it’s a very legit online personals site. Very few review sites consider this the #1 online personals site, but the truth is those review sites don’t actually take the time to review dating sites. They just write the same stuff other sites write (i.e. Match.com/eHarmony.com are the best). Yes, those 2 sites are fantastic places for finding love, but Xpress.com is even better. Our results prove it.