I’ve made my fair share of mistakes with women online. Not proud of that, but it is what it is. The most common mistake I tend to make is not thinking with my head. Hey, I’m a guy. Sometimes I think with my junk instead. I see a profile of a hottie and I immediately want to chat with her. But sometimes my head is telling me, “you have nothing in common with this chick” or “she’s no good for you so don’t even waste your time”.
I don’t always listen to my head. Often times, I think with my junk and then I end up regretting it. I’m sure you’ve done the same thing from time to time. As I’ve become more experienced with women, I’ve learned that looks aren’t everything. So instead of deciding whether or not to contact her based solely on her picture, look for these signs she’s NOT the one for you…
She appears to have an “I hate men because they always screw me over” attitude
If I notice comments such as “I’m tired of men because…” then I’m not going to message her even if she’s hot as hell. These chicks are unbearable. They look good but they aren’t worth dealing with. She will automatically assume you’re a douchebag that’s just looking for sex, will beat her, will cheat on her, etc. Spare yourself some misery and don’t even bother.
You read through her interests and notice you don’t enjoy any of those activities
She describes her ideal match as the polar opposite of you
You’re a nice guy and she likes the bad boys. Or you’re short and she likes tall guys. Either way, you’re probably not going to be what she’s looking for. Go after the women that describe their ideal man as someone close to you. Some women make specific comments about how they only date white guys or only date guys taller than them. If you don’t fit that description, don’t waste your time. You’re not going to get with her.