Is it possible to have a great personality and not good looks, but still get laid?
I don’t know a lot of average or below average looking guys that believe personality is good enough to get them laid. And they’re right. But that’s because they are negative. Attractive women do sleep with guys far less attractive than they are. Those guys have great personalities and know how to talk to a woman. You can learn this skill simply by reading through our other blog posts and Online Personals Dating Strategy Guide.
Never let someone convince you that attractive women only hook up with attractive men. Looks are only part of it. What they really want is a man that knows how to please a woman. If they decide, based on your personality, that you’re likely to be good in bed… you can get laid. Looks matter to shallow women, and I know I have no shot with those chicks. But I don’t really care. They are completely irrelevant to me. I go after the attainable ones instead.
Good looks are subjective…
Sure, there are guys that are lucky enough to look good wearing anything. For the rest of us, looking good requires dressing well and being well groomed. Many guys that aren’t naturally attractive do not understand this. Having good style is attractive to women. Don’t believe me? Ask random women what they’re most attracted to and they’ll say confidence, style, and other similar traits.
Plus, who is to say you aren’t attractive? Maybe you’re not physically attractive to one girl or a lot of girls, but I’ve never met a guy that couldn’t become attractive to any women with a bit of work. Have you tried getting a new hairstyle, getting into shape, purchasing new outfits, etc.? I was listening to a conversation between a couple of girls recently. One girl was drooling over this one guy and her friend thought that guy was completely unattractive.