We spend so much time talking about meeting women online and impressing them on a first date. But for this article, I want to cover another very important subject – determining if she’s girlfriend material. It’s real easy to fall for the first girl you meet because you’re lonely or have been single for a while. Guys make this mistake all the time. After dating her for a while, they find out she’s not “the one” and realize they should have spent more time getting to know her before getting into a committed relationship.
The next girl you go on a date with, take the time to analyze her. Find out what she’s all about. Find out how much you have in common. Find out what her future plans are. Don’t automatically assume she’s a great girl because you’re physically attracted to her. Looks fade and personality ends up becoming the most important part of a relationship. Determine if your personalities will collide. For example, if you’re very outgoing and opinionated and she’s shy, it’s probably not a good fit. What I’m saying is just because she has a great ass doesn’t mean she’s a wife material. It just means she has a nice ass!
3 areas you MUST be compatible with: between the sheets, common interests, similar personalities
Sex: Couples with bad sex lives have problems. It’s impossible to be happy in a relationship if you aren’t compatible sexually. If you’re not into the same things sexually as her or unwilling to try new things, it won’t work. Either that or she will cheat on you.
Interests: It’s silly to expect a male and a female to be interested in all of the same things. But if you’re dating someone that has absolutely nothing in common with you, it will never work. You will both always want to do something else than the other one does and this will lead to constant fighting.
Personalities: Sometimes opposites do attract. But more often than not, that’s not the case. A prime example of that is a super sweet female friend of mine that is always chasing the bad boys. She so desperately wants to turn them into a nice guy, but that won’t ever happen. Because she continues to chase guys with opposite personalities, she gets her heart broken time and time again.