I’m going to be perfectly honest with you upfront… I’ve done a horrible job in the past of following the advice I’m about to give. Now that I have that out of the way, let’s discuss first date limits. If you’re truly interested in this post, I’m going to assume you want to have sex on a first date. There’s nothing wrong with that, but I do have to warn you…
Just because you want to have sex on a first date doesn’t mean she WILL
It’s true that at least 50% of women above age 21 will put out on a first date if they’re in the mood and things are going well. It’s also true that only a small percentage of men wouldn’t give it up on a first date. So while you are hoping to get laid, don’t try to be persuasive. It will irritate her and you won’t get a second date. If she wants to have sex with you, she’ll be receptive to your “do you want to go back to my house?” question. If she says no, be friendly and say, “okay, that’s not a big deal”. It will score you some brownie points for not trying to pressure her into having sex.
Show some self-discipline: it’s not the end of the world if you don’t get laid
Never compromise your morals because she wants to have sex or you’re turned on. I’m not personally against first date sex. Lord knows I’ve done it before. However, if you are against having sex on a first date, don’t let emotions and pressure get to you. Yes, women sometimes pressure a man into having sex on a first date. You’d be surprised.