Ah, yes, the proverbial “she said she wasn’t looking for sex” comment darn near every guy online mentions prior to meeting a girl. It is true – most of the time – that when a woman says she isn’t looking for sex, she isn’t looking for sex. However, looking for sex and being a willing and able participant of sexual activities is two completely different things.
The other day I decided to go out to dinner with a friend. We agreed that we wanted to eat at a Mexican restaurant about 5 miles from my house. Along the way, we noticed a new steakhouse that had some tempting Happy Hour specials. Since the steakhouse was new and those Happy Hour specials were enticing, we changed our mind and ended up there. When we left home, we were set on eating at the Mexican restaurant. But along the way, the steakhouse gave us a reason to change our minds and eat there.
Women are indecisive…
Sure, women are naturally stubborn. But when it comes to hormones, that changes. Let’s say you’re out on a date with a girl that swore up and down she would never put out on a first date. The night is going great. She’s totally into you, you’re totally into her. You go in for a kiss and that leads to a nice long make out session. Before you know it, you’re turned on and she’s turned on.
What happens when two people get turned on? Their hormones begin to make decisions for them. So if she said before the date she wouldn’t put out, it’s’ quite likely her mind will change if she’s in the mood. It’s not that she’s a liar. When a woman says she won’t put on a first date, she really does NOT intend on hooking up. But just like my friend and I intended for grabbing on some Mexican food, our mind changed when we drove by the new steakhouse.