Ask her questions and act interested in her comments
Women dig men that pay attention. They like to be asked questions. However, there is a point where too many questions become annoying. Remember in High School when your parents asked you a thousand questions about where you’re going, who you’re going with? After the 20th question, you wanted to smack your parents upside the head.
Although you should allow her to speak more than you do, you should be the one controlling the direction of the conversation. It will show her you truly do want to get to know her and that you are able to hold an interesting conversation. Don’t go on about yourself. If she wants to know something about you, she will ask. Focus all of the attention on her life.
Take her somewhere fun, entertaining, and original
There’s nothing lamer than dinner and a movie. I’m sure you know plenty of people that disagree with that, but it’s true. Never take a girl to a movie on a first date because you won’t have the opportunity to work your game on her. It’s cool if you want to take her out to dinner but make sure it’s a restaurant with a good atmosphere and do something fun afterwards. Some ideas include a basketball game, mini-golf, bowling, or if you’re both adventurous… bungee jumping, skydiving, etc.
A first date should be stress free and entertaining. If you are bored on the first date, she will assume you always are. Show her a good time. Let your great personality shine because if you don’t, you won’t get a second chance. Women don’t give guys a second opportunity to prove they’re fun and interesting. Once she makes a negative assumption about you, it’s over.