The Internet invites billion of users across the globe on a daily basis. The need for people to connect to others, whether for work or for leisure, gives credence to their growing dependency for the online realm. Online dating or commonly known as cyber dating has become a norm among many people who cannot find love in their vicinity or is undergoing emotional upheaval. What could be a seemingly fun-filled testing ground for many men and women looking for a personal connection actually house certain forms of danger and the winner – dating a psycho nutcase or a “cyberpath.”
You need to understand that women are as dangerous as men. Some can look downright angelic but deep inside hides a devious woman waiting for the right time to unleash its fury. The scary thing about women Cyberpaths is that they can be eloquent in their words, always using the best ones that will ignite your senses and your loins, of course. These are your damsels in distress, the very epitome of a woman in need. But hidden beneath the sweet surface is the growing agitation to “own” you and take control of your life even beyond the four corners of your computer screen.
A Little Prevention Goes a Long Way
Like any diseases, the key to easily ward-off a psychotic date is put a lid on it while still in an early phase. Indeed, this can be a challenging situation knowing that online socials allow one to hide her true identity. I would have liked to recommend that you stay out of online dating sites but like you, I also enjoy meeting women through these sites. The key is that I choose reliable and trustworthy sites all the time – and yes, I do some background checks from time to time.
When at an online dating site, look beyond the good looks and oozing charm. Women often use their hot sexy body or beautiful face to entice men and looking beyond what they present will give you a clearer perspective on who they really are. As a rule, never meet up with just a week of online social connection. Even a week of actual dating will not give you a hint if your girl is a tigress or a lamb. Not that you do not prefer her to be a tigress in bed. Tee-hee! But a tigress on everything can be dangerous.
Know the Warning Signs of CyberPaths
Deceitful Patterns. There is no such thing as a good excuse. A lie is a lie and knowing the difference between her being sick needing financial help and being sick needing bed rest is a must. Cyberpaths have the tendency to bleed-out your pockets and your emotions, too. If she keeps on asking for some financial assistance, time to move on to another, bro!
Zeroing on Empathy. Try talking about a dead aunt or a dead uncle and you get nothing but sadistic humor instead. She can say she’s sorry or can send her condolences and can act sad in three minutes or so. The worst is when she made sick jokes about a dead loved one or displaying no emotions at all.
Too Charming. Too much of a good thing is bad. Even the most charming kind can be too sleazy. Showing a little skin when chatting can be good. Though it can be too good to see her disrobing on the other side of the world, a little decency will give you a clear indication that she’s the real thing.
Always Blaming Others. Listen to her whine. The first sign of trouble with your girl is how she blames others for mistakes. This is the most extreme kind where she always put herself as the innocent one. The very epitome of a victim when, upon closer inspection of the events, put her as the one making the mistake.
When to Call For Law Enforcement Intervention
Do engage in a complete background check when you sense something wrong with your online partner. A background check would give you enough idea of her personality and personal circumstances. Keep in mind that this type of woman can be impulsive, shallow and have a distorted sense of her ego. Once you are able to scratch the surface, you are in deep trouble.
She can hurt you or, worse, destroy your reputation. Some Cyberpaths go great lengths in creating damage to your work and to the people close to you. She can hound you with her endless threats. In extreme cases, like that of Mary Beckman, she can even be murderous depending on how aggravated she felt.
If you feel something is amiss, file a report to the police. Explain carefully the circumstances that you are in. Just make sure that you have enough evidence to nail down your she-devil to ensure that you and your loved one are protected from her devious scheme.
In all these, it is always important to protect yourself from any harm especially when engaging in online matchup. Keep in mind that exploitation is much easier to accomplish online. This gives “Cyberpaths” more leeway to practice their cunning and craftiness. If you have any qualms about your new found online ladylove, it is best not to provide in-depth information about yourself. Better be safe than sorry. Your idea of a romp in bed might lead you to far more dangerous liaisons than you can even imagine.