You may have gone tipsy or drunk before leaving for his place, but before you jump his bones, stay alert and make sure that you have some form of protection handy. Remember, you hardly know this person, so it is best to be safe than to be sorry. Also, make sure that you let a friend or two know where you are heading. The more people who know where you are, the safer you will be.
Forego with telling him that it is your “first time”
Chances are, he would not care about it. Neither should you. If in case he asks, just smile at him, say, “It’s not in my nature to do this,” then drop the subject. Going through extreme lengths to explain that you have not done this before will make him think of the opposite all the more. You do not need to tell anyone anything. It is best to leave it at that.
Do not leave anything behind accidentally on purpose
Ensure that all your belongings are accounted for before leaving his place the morning after. It would be very embarrassing to go back to his house just to get your stuff. You would not want him to get the idea that you did it on purpose even if it was accidental. If in case you left something that is not of much value, leave it and think of it as a memento of you. If it is something valuable, let him reach you. If he likes you (or if he is decent enough), he will get in touch with you.
Leave before he wakes up
Avoid that awkward moment where he has to see you dress up without any recollection as to who you are and you have to explain yourself to him. Leaving before he awakens adds to your mystique, which will make you more irresistible to him. Believe me, he will come looking for you. You do not need to linger just to catch his attention.
Do not overstay your welcome
Let us say that he woke up earlier than you did. You can hear him taking a shower. Open your eyes, look for your things, then leave. If he likes you to stay, he could have at least invited you to join him. But leave nonetheless even though he asked you to. Do not wait for him to find you dressing up, or worse, still in bed. He might get the impression that you want a repeat of yesterday night. Leave unnoticed, and he will clamor for more.
Turn down his offer to hang out
It is all part of your charm. Act like you couldn’t care less (without appearing to be uninterested in seeing him again) about last night and politely decline his offer to stay. If he really wants to be with you, he will make sure that he will see you again by asking you out on a real date, where both of you are sober. Who knows if his invitation for you to hang out is just his code to have another bout of tangled sheets and sweaty bodies?
Never offer to give your digits (nor ask for his)
If he really likes you, he will ask for your number himself before you leave his place the morning after. If you offer your number (especially after painstakingly scribbling it on a piece of paper), he will politely take it but will throw it into the trash immediately after you leave. Save yourself the trouble and just leave. He is not worth your time if he is not interested enough to ask for your digits himself.
Most importantly, know what to expect in a one-night stand. If you want more than a night of pure unadulterated fun, then this may not be your thing. Make sure that your heart is in place before succumbing yourself to this type of relationship, for the reason that your feelings may not be requited.