Are you having problems on how to attract women? Have you used all the tricks in the book but they still don’t work in your favor? Are you asking yourself why something as simple as a guy-meets-girl, fell in love, got married and lived happily ever after is so complicated and hard to come by? Maybe, you don’t really need to use any tricks or techniques to find the woman of your dreams; instead, you just need to try a different approach — a spiritual or a “Zen” approach that is; a subtle art that affects a person’s spirit and vigor. You may think that it is just a one complicated hype, but it’s actually a simple concept of imagination and deep thinking; a priceless new approach when it comes to attracting women.
Here are the proper ways to help you get started on being a Zen master to attract different kinds of women.
It starts from the inside
Your actions towards others and the way you talk to them will show how well you handled your past relationships. If you had a bad relationship, know that this didn’t come to pass without you contributing to it somehow. If your partner strayed, then the relationship shouldn’t end without you finding out why things happened the way they did. And if it was evident that you had something to do with it then accept it and commit to change. Forgive your ex and forgive yourself – accept the fact that nobody is perfect; everyone is bound to commit a mistake. But the important thing is you’re willing to accept the wrongs that have been done and are willing to correct it. As a popular psychologist would say “you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge” – this means that in order to right a wrong, you must first accept it. The next time around, your senses will be keen on these same problems and will take immediate action before your new relationship blows off.
Learn to be grateful
How can someone be attracted to you if you are still not contented with who you are and what you have right now? Be grateful by learning to love yourself and love your life. Women are not attracted to a man, who has problems with his life; especially when his level of satisfaction is not met even with the right kind of woman in his life. How do you expect to give what you don’t have?
Stay in the zone and just be cool
If you are the first one to be attracted to a woman and you want her to be attracted to you as well, just stay relaxed and don’t get too excited about it. Approach that woman and engage her in a conversation in a confident manner. Make her feel that you interested in what she is saying and respond smartly and accordingly to her. Keep your gentleman-manners and focus your attention on her. Women are attracted to men who give them the attention they want. If you sense that both of you have something in common, then you’re safe to ask her out on a date.
Easier said than done, don’t you agree? But this is true; no woman likes a man who is just pretending to be someone he’s not. It is best to be yourself, and if she is not attracted to you, don’t do anything foolish by changing your already-good attitude just because some woman likes the opposite. Move on and find someone else, but if you insist on forcing that woman to like you just think about this: why would you like someone who doesn’t like you just the way you are? Don’t let someone else’s opinion and taste in men ruin your personality. Just be yourself and love everything about yourself, including strengths and weaknesses. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man who accepts himself. Eventually, someone will notice your authenticity and will give you the unconditional love you deserve.
Remember to be patient and never rush yourself in impressing a woman. Keep calm and stay in your state of “Zen” – inner peace, cheerfulness, positive vibes. A woman won’t help but notice it. When you’re at peace, it will radiate in your face, I the way you talk and the way you move; you’ll be unaware that your eyes and lips smile all the time. In fact, this is contagious and this is what attracts women – the right kind! So keep pressing on while being in Zen.