Are you new to the online dating scene? Finally, you’ve been convinced by friends who successfully met hot and gorgeous women online. Some of your friends met women from online dating sites while others from sex personals. Now you’re wondering what’s the best and fastest way to meet women. Well, both can help you meet women and both have advantages and disadvantages over the other.
What are sex personals?
Personal ads are not new; they are traditionally seen in newspapers on the classified ads section, but the ad post is quite “personal” in nature, hence the name. Long before there were online dating sites, two people who do not know each other, but might be sexually interesting, meet through these ads. These ads are meant to elicit friendship or romance or sometimes casual sex encounters. The one who posted the ad gives a description of himself and his interests. If any girl is interested, she replies through postal mail. Before the advent of the world wide web, personal ads have become so popular that even the need to have a “partner” in marriage was advertised there, oftentimes beginning with the words “wanted: mail-order-brides”. The setback of personals during the old days is that the poster and the one replying to the ads are unable to see each other until they become regular and mutual correspondents. Stories have it that genuine romance indeed blossom in those days as interest to know each other more builds up over time since communication is limited only to reading postal mails.
Personal ads shift to online sex personals
Personal ads were carried out on the internet being more cost effective and yes, the majority of the time, free. With the digital technology the online world now has an abundance of these ads; you get to meet not just a local but also men and women from around the world. As usual, “about me” is straightforward and clear: “looking for a woman to share my life” or the more explicit ones like “I like it hot”. Meeting girls could be brisk since the descriptions of interests are no-nonsense. With a click of a button an email reply is sent to the poster’s Inbox and the ball starts rolling from there. Later, these personals were up with sex personals by posters seriously looking for nothing else but sexual encounters (discrete or otherwise).
If you’re considering using this site, you will not run out people to meet because apart from those who will reply to your ads, you can also freely reply to those ones whose profiles you like. But there are two disadvantages worth pointing out. One, since there is no way for the platform to qualify your respondents you get to read each email and qualify them yourself. From the feedback of experienced users, they get tired easily from sorting out people that don’t match them. Another is, since there are numerous new people joining in each day your profile may get lost from the long list of new ones. Those that might be the “right match” for you may miss out this chance of seeing and meeting you. A good suggested way to narrow down your choices is to use the search engine that these websites provide by specifying the interests you prefer. By doing this, you have a greater chance of finding your individual match.
Are online dating sites a better alternative?
Online dating sites are much different from sex personals in such that meeting women may take a slightly longer route. The one “looking” for a “date” (however that date might turn out) registers and fills out a questionnaire to describe himself then later describes the type of woman he wants to meet – this is often referred to a matching test. Afterwards the dating platform will process this information to find the “match” for this person. The result is countless profile of prospective dates to meet and greet. The online dating site will send email notifications of these matched profiles.
With the other platform’s user problem, online dating sites make sure you don’t experience the same. After all, meeting new people should be exciting and fun, not limiting and stressful. The only known disadvantage could be the fees involved for some advanced search options and high quality matches. More so, you might need to commit using the site for a minimum period of time
Whether you’re in for real romance or just the no-strings-attach sexual fun of it, both sex personals and online dating sites are good venues to meet women online. If you are new to this experience, you need to identify your “search goal” in order to save time and energy to find the right person you’re seeking.