Your mother may have taught you everything you know about men. However, there are few things which your mom cannot tell you about men. I am sure that she always knows these things, but most women like their daughters to learn them when they are in a relationship with their men. May be, most mothers want their daughters to learn for themselves in order to know how they can handle these things. The truth is that men are different and you cannot approach these things to all men in a similar way.
You will first have to understand your man, and then later learn the best way how you can handle him. These are the things which you should not your daughters when they grow up. They should learn them on the hard ways as you did. Here are these few things which your mother will never tell you about men.
Men cannot multitask like women do
Women can concentrate with more than one thing. As a woman I can be able to wash my dish, follow a certain program in the TV and at the same time listen to what my baby is saying. However, this is not possible to my man. Giving your main instruction to do more than one thing simultaneously it is equivalent to wearing Kryptonite lingerie on a date with Superman. Men cannot do them. Learn this, and do not expect your mother to tell you.
Men do not remember things the way women do
Women have sharp memories compared to men. It is possible to remember a certain scenario without forgetting even a single event which took place. However, this is not the case to men. To them, this is like a half frustration & a half parlor game. In case he does something that pisses you just tell him immediately. Do not remind him the same thing he did in certain party you attended since he will not remember.
Men’s priorities are inverse to ours
By looking at your favorite programs in the TV and compare to your man’s favorite programs you will immediately notice that there are not similar at all. The same thing is applicable to what they prefer to purchase in the house first. You will find that your main priority in the house is purchasing a home theater, smart TV just to mention a few. On the other hand, women like to buy utensils and other kitchen things. This can be also seen in the field of investment where men are known to invest in risky projects unlike women who always like to be on the safe side by investing in less risky projects.
Men are color blind unlike us women
One day I was shocked when my man told me that there is no difference in color between two garments which I given him. The truth was that there was a big color difference since one was orange and the other one was red. Therefore, do not think that your man is pretending that he do not know to differentiate colors. This is the truth about men; some colors to them may look alike while in the real sense they are completely different. Therefore, this become a challenge to us women since we should be making decisions in our homes about which color we should purchase and make an effort of buying those products yourself. Because you can be disappointed if you send your man to realize that the product which he has bought is of different color from what you asked for. If it happens, do not blame you man; blame yourself for failing to fulfill this duty. Know that, it is difficult for men to contrast colors.
Men cannot really define the word irrational
This is a good trick about men. The way the game works is that he whittles away at you with some little things. Your man can be going out more than four times in a day and each time he promised to pick up your clothes in the dry cleaning. His version of cleaning the house could be organizing the CDs in the alphabetical orders.
If you wait for your mother to tell you these secrets about men, then you will live for ages, your mum will want you to learn them from your man and know how to solve them yourself. Since, the good thing is to understand your man first, and then take the next step of action.