While the internet is a great and easy place to look for a man who will love you for the rest of your life, it is also a dangerous place if you are not careful. Some people have realized how some women are desperate about getting a lover, that’s why there are many cases of online dating scams. In order not to be a victim of the online scam, a woman should ask a man several questions after weeding out the weirdos. Here are 5 important questions which you should ask the man you have just met online before you fall in love with him
Question 1: What are his short term goals?
As you know, we all have short term and long term goals. They are different from a person to person. If you are planning to have a long term relationship with the man, then it is important to know what he is planning to achieve in the near future and how these goals fit into the key element that make real men.
Who is he, what he does and how much he makes? The three questions are very important to ask a man and you have the right to know exactly what he is doing and what he is planning to do in the near future. The answers which he will give to these questions will help you to determine if you will be part of his plan or not. You will know to throw up your much needed red flag if he does not have future plan at all.
A man who has a vision for where he wants to see himself in three years has looked into his future & seriously considered what it will take for him to get there.
Question 2: The next important question is what are his long term goals?
Trust me, a man who has looked at how his life will be in ten years to come is serious with what he is doing. Since, he already what he should fulfill. It means that he has a foresight and he is plotting out his step to achieve what he wants in the future. However, if his long term goals are similar to the short term then, just stop the conversation since it shows that he has never thought of his life at this time. The man, who you should consider spending time with him, is the one who has a well thought out plan that you can see yourself in.
Question 3: What are the views which he has on the relationship?
Never ever forget to ask this question to a man who you want to spend your quality time with. This is a multiple part question that will enable you to understand whether the man is serious with the relationship. Ask him how he feels about his parents and other questions which fall under this category. The answers which he gives will show how serious he is about the commitment, what kind of father or husband he might be just to mention a few. Do these before you meet and kiss this man and maybe before you agree to go on a date with him.
Question 4: What do you think about me?
You need to ask this question after you have a few dates with him since he need to understand you first. However, his answer to this question will be important because it will reveal what he if planning for you in the future. If you have been out for a couple of days and you have had lots of conversation, then you might know something about the man. However, it is important to know what a man is thinking about you. The fact is that he was attracted to something about you and he has thought something about you and you need to know what it is. Men usually know the type of woman which they will need to spend their life with and the type of woman who they only want to sleep with.
Question 5: How do you feel about me?
You should not first be confused about “think” and “feel” these are two different things. If a man cannot tell about what he is feeling about you then, he does not feel anything for you. He just wants something.
If you want to have a long term relationship with the man you just met on the online dating site, then do not hesitate to ask him these questions. By the way he answer them, you will be able to know how serious he is with you or he just wants to waste your time.